Great Geek Manual, 35.) You will attract who you deserve. If you...

35.) You will attract who you deserve. If you don’t like who you are getting, change yourself. If you can’t change yourself, get a reality check.

Sort of a Tough Love version of “you have to love yourself before you can love someone else.”

Source: “Advice for women turning 30” by Penelope Trunk, February 17th, 2011.